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When we are pregnant thousand things pass to us for the head, we have to think about the doctor that we will choose, in the trousseau of the baby, in the studies that we have to do to ourselves, in our health and that of the baby, that car of walk, cradle, armchair for car to buy, that we will be able to do exercise,
In this space we will give you some advices of how choosing the name of the baby. Fixed rules do not exist to choose the name of the baby. The principal target, and that sometimes is not so easy to manage, is the consensus of the parents. Sometimes we have to negotiate and put two names to him to our baby, one that our couple likes, and other that it is we who like. But: what will be the first name, which the mom chooses or the one that the dad chooses? There it will be already a particular topic of every couple. Many ways or different ways exist to choose the name of the baby, therefore here we will revise someone.
In many countries the name of the baby is chosen according to the tradition, culture or religion of the same one. For example the tradition of putting to the first-born one the name of the paternal grandfather, and to the first-born one the name of the maternal grandmother. If this is your case and you do not like the name that your baby inherited, you can choose to put it of the second name, and like the first name, the fact that you choose with your couple, this way, the whole "relatives" will remain satisfied. (and if not, you do not become many malasangre, since if the name of your mom is Etelvina, the important thing is to think if tomorrow your daughter will not hate you for having tried to prevent your mom from getting angry with tigo).
Another familiar tradition is the one that chooses the name as his religion. For example the Roman apostolic catholic families usually choose the name of the sanctorale. Even in the annual calendar there usually appear the saints who agree with every day of the year. For which if your daughter for example is born one August 30 and you put name Rose, the day of his fulfills years it will be also “the day of his saint”.
Another important thing to bear in mind at the time of choosing the name of your baby is to know if in the country that you reside, the law that applies on the names inscription in the civil record of your jurisdiction, your baby allows to note down with the name that you chose for him. Take advice, since of course the government of the city to which you belong has a list of authorized names, and laws that regulate the inscription of the above mentioned names.
For example in the Argentina we cannot note down our children with names that could turn out to be ambiguities with regard to their sex. It will only be admitted if one adds the second name that should define the sex of the person. For example: for woman, Maria José, or For male, José Maria.
The list of names accepted by every civil record will depend on the jurisdiction to which the above mentioned civil record corresponds. Or that, in every jurisdiction the normes lists can change. In some civil records exceptions are done with some cases of names that do not appear in the list, the step can be bothersome, but if it is important for the parents, the effort will be worth while. For example I know a case of a mom who is Armenia, and he wanted to put him to his drink Luciné, as it was not appearing in the list of names of the civil record where it was having him to inscribe his daughter, it had to do several complicated steps route consulate, and finally it achieved it.
Another important thing to bear in mind on having chosen the name of the baby, is that it combines with the surname of the baby, for example:
And as last advice I recommend to you, if you do not manage to agree with the dad of your baby in the election of the name that they love for him, to do each one separately two lists with the names that they each one likes, in a list those of baby, and in other one, those of baby, then to arrange four lists, to see if there are coincidences, and if they are not, try to choose of the list of other the names that more he has liked. This way they will treat of concensuar and to come to an agreement.
The name of your baby will accompany it along his life, if you choose it with love and respect, your son also will love it and will respect, since it will be what offers to him an identity, the most proper thing that it will have in his life. Then he remembers that you give him the life, but then another important act is to name your son (and that's why the baptism is so important, and the rite of the name as the sanctorale).